i quoted tori amos a while back:
"That is the need people have right now, it seems, to dictate to another person how they should live there life."

V says: ( V is for Veron)
yeah
it should be added to maslow's

im still sparodically sniggering.
i didnt know i could get so excited talking about this brilliant woman.

here's another quotation from tori:
"Traveling and seeing how women see themselves in different cultures ... how the community thinks of them becomes so important for some of them, more than how than how they even feel about themselves. And some of them are dying -- they're dying in their lives. You might be approved of in your community, but your heart is completely breaking. And I don't find that a tolerant society -- that is not the compassionate Christ path to me. I began to see that kindness and tolerance were not found in institutions, but found in individuals who seemed to be breaking away from the old patriarchal viewpoint."